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Laura C's avatar

This piece is real evidence of AHP’s greatness as a writer, because I have less than no interest in gardening and the faintest possible level of interest in flowers, yet I read every word with interest.

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I love all Culture Study gardening content but the intersection of this topic with other Cultire Study Things like The Portal and Millennial Hustle Culture made it such an extra great read.

Also, this is perhaps a #basic example, but this reminds me a lot of 2010s Serious Food People Culture, in which I totally partook as a Yelp community manager, designer of food curriculum and sometime Brooklyn Kitchen teacher. It wasn’t enough to have a decent chef’s knife and know how to use it; you had to have a hyperspecific blade recommended by Heidi Swanson (though the one she recommended was truly great and I still love it). It wasn’t enough to know the general gist of how the Maillard reaction works; you had to read the collected works of J. Kenji Lopez (a nice guy and truly a total genius, tbh), and know the precise blend of ingredients and techniques to produce the chemically Platonic ideal of a Sunday gravy. And on and on. And obviously it wasn’t enough just to love food and throw dinner parties for your friends — it had to be your job. And so it was for me for a long time, because when I love something I too tend to go wide and deep and obsess and try to know all there is to know and do all there is to do.

But you know what? I like food so much better when it’s not my job. I do other stuff now. It’s nice to let the things we love exist separately from the ways we serve our communities for money. It’s nice to stop at “enough” rather than going full throttle into “doing the most for no reason.”

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