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I loved this so much. I had played video games before the pandemic, but I have begun playing them much more regularly in covid times, starting with Animal Crossing in March (when I thought I would be quarantining for a few months, tops) and continuing with Link's Awakening, Stardew Valley, and Hades.

Animal Crossing's simultaneous release with the start of sheltering in place has been huge for feeling connected to friends and family. My parents didn't want my sister to play, but I ended up buying her a switch and playing with her (now that it's been over a year since we were together in person) has really strengthened our relationship. Seeing her avatar, who looks so much like her, makes me incredibly happy.

But also, when I was having such, such a hard time managing my ever-rising anxiety, Animal Crossing was the only thing that could quiet it. I've since moved on (except playing with my sister), but in those initial months, I really cherished taking off my shoes, stepping off the green grass of my island, and walking along the shore as the island's music faded into the sound of the ocean.

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As someone who both benefited from the escapism afforded by video games in my teenage years and now works in the video game development industry this NYT article was extremely disappointing. The tired old stereotypes characterising gamers as isolated loners, forecasting that gamer children will grow up lacking social skills. I'm tired of hearing it.

Playing games has been part of human interaction for thousands of years. Archaeologists have found evidence of ancient game pieces dating to Egyptian times and beyond. Playing games is part of how we develop our motor and intellectual skills in childhood, and offers us ways to explore new experiences, exercise mental capacities and form new social connections. It is an intrinsic part of being human that gets given lower priority in adulthood, but never really goes away.

As for gamers being loners, I can point to any number of examples of people forming lasting friendships through games. Even relationships leading to happy marriages. I have friends whom I have made through gaming for whom I would drop everything if they asked me for help, and I know they would do the same for me. What brought us together was a common interest, just like people who meet friends at their golf club, swimming class or pottery club. And we talk about other things than just games, exactly like people do after the football match, jogging meet or painting class. We encourage each other through tough times, celebrate each other's victories and mourn each other's losses. We remember gaming moments of the past and re-tell the stories of them just like the fishermen telling stories about that epic marlin they caught, and yes, the odds we vanquished also grow bigger with every time we tell our tales.

Video games are an industry that is here to stay. It is an industry that outperforms the movie industry in terms of revenue and employs thousands of people all over the world. Whether the New York Times likes it or not, it forms part of the modern day discourse about society and the world we live in. I just wish we would be accepted as such.

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