Grew up with hard individualism (Kelley without the upward part). It hardened even further when surrounded by the privileged class. Found hard individualism really doesn't serve you once you waft up to the soft individualists, but damn that hardness sticks. And that collision, friends, is very hard indeed.
Grew up with hard individualism (Kelley without the upward part). It hardened even further when surrounded by the privileged class. Found hard individualism really doesn't serve you once you waft up to the soft individualists, but damn that hardness sticks. And that collision, friends, is very hard indeed.
Our communities can't teach the soft or hard skills they don't know about.
Secondly, having tried to lead my own child for the last 9 years, I disagree about shyness or creativity being taught. Once you have a child, there is a shocking realization that you have far less influence over who that being truly is than you think. We all come in with a blueprint. It revises and reveals itself over time but revising takes trauma, work or big experiences.
Grew up with hard individualism (Kelley without the upward part). It hardened even further when surrounded by the privileged class. Found hard individualism really doesn't serve you once you waft up to the soft individualists, but damn that hardness sticks. And that collision, friends, is very hard indeed.
Our communities can't teach the soft or hard skills they don't know about.
Secondly, having tried to lead my own child for the last 9 years, I disagree about shyness or creativity being taught. Once you have a child, there is a shocking realization that you have far less influence over who that being truly is than you think. We all come in with a blueprint. It revises and reveals itself over time but revising takes trauma, work or big experiences.